Rosdaly Ramirez

I often get a lot of questions from new parents and the common one is to talk about things I wasn’t prepared to experience in parenthood. Some of those things are funny, and others are quite painful. After almost seven years of being on this journey, there are many things I just wasn’t prepared to experience and truthfully I don’t know a book or anyone can prepare you for some of these things. My hope is that this series allows you to remember that just as you are helping grow a tiny human, they are doing the same for you. Anyone else can relate to this video ? 😅 the kid knows me more than I want to show him and he sees me well enough to act like me. # realparenting #momlife #motherhood #parenthood

We visited the @bubbleplanetexperience recently and wow! What a fun experience location wise! The kids had a blast! From getting to color and see their fish drawings on a digital fish tank to being in a room a jumping balloons and I can’t forget the ball bit that almost took me out 🤣 When I told hubby I could manage the experience on my own, I knew I was lying. Even after a year of being a mom of three, I can’t fully say that I can manage the kids outside on my own. It’s either one or two, but three ? I’m having a hard time. But I also know that if I let my anxiety get the best of me, I won’t leave anywhere. I won’t learn what I can and cannot do with them and find ways to better my time without it being a tantrum match of fake threats just to get by. Anyone feel me on that one ? Yet, even on hard outings with them I think about the small moments where I catch them laughing. Because really a few mins later another emotions appears and I’m stuck between “ omg, this place is so cute and fun” and “ why did I do this to myself” 🤣 Anyways, if you’re up for a wonderful time & enjoying moments even when tantrums arise, you’ll love it here! ✨ Thanks hosting us @bubbleplanetexperience , use the code BUBBLESNJ15 for 15% off your tickets ! #nycmom #realmotherhood #thingstodonyc #kidfriendly

Just a random Sunday, church, car karaoke, loud kids, and good good food! @sweetchicklife ! So I’m gonna add @sweetchicklife to my family friendly places to eat in NYC. The food was GOOD! We’re big foodies and only recommend places we love, but also that are accommodating to parents. I will say, this is the Queens location and the changer in the bathroom had graffiti all over, so that may be a turn off for some but just make sure you have a changing pad 🤣😅 this have a high chairs and the menu is kid friendly Anyways, hope your Sunday was blessed & joy met you today! ✨ #nycmom #motherhood #sundayvlog

The only times you would ever catching me running is for the bus, and after I became a mom… it was running after these kids. 😂 so when @curlswithapromise invited me to run, I second guessed whether I would actually make it. But one thing about her is that she will push you to do anything even if you think you can’t do it. As a mom, sisterhood is something that I think many of us have a hard time navigating. It’s not that we don’t desire it, but truly I think many of us are at a cap. Seeking and making new friends is often shadowed by the everyday in’s and outs of motherhood. I mean how many times can you keep a conversation going with a friend without the kids interrupting, or having to excuse yourself to meet their needs. And I know what you’re thinking, “ why should I bother?” Because it’s healthy for you and the hope is that you find friendships that see you and what season you’re in as a mom. That speak life into your fears and make space for you whenever you’re ready to come around. Friendships change, and that’s not always a bad thing. But the lie we often believe is that we can do motherhood alone, and we can’t. some seasons you’ll need friends to seek you out and others you’ll be able to give more of yourself. Good friendship does well to the soul, and hopefully you’ll experience healing through it. 🤍 Tag a friend that makes you feel safe & encourage you in every season ✨ #sisterhood #friendship #mothehood #happyinternationalfriendshipday

@thetoyinsider invited us to check out their coolest toy event of the summer “ Sweet Suites 2024” ✨ spending one on one time with each of the boys is something we try to do often. The event was packed with new and upcoming toy launches, perfect for a gamer kid. Now that C is older, it’s nice to see what toys get his attention and I wasn’t surprised when most of them resembled hubby’s favorites. 😂 #sweetsuite24 #sweetsuite2024 #sweetsuite

Moments in ATL 🤍 1. Whatever is left of this journey @mybabybuddha 2. Waiting for the Uber 3. When Tia introduces you to Pooh bear 🐻 “ bear so cute” 🥹 4. It’s giving “bougie burrito” 5. A memory from before 6: how to lose a guy in ten days… classic. 7: time for baby wear! @ergobaby @babies.and.bumps 8: “ but why did I grab your boxers thinking they were my shorts” 💀 @artbydario 9: the duffle was the hot topic of the trip @caraasport

Since kids grow out of shoes so fast, @famousfootwear has you covered this school year! Visit your local store to get sized, a fast and easy process and check out all of their amazing shoe brand selections. So affordable and fresh for the new school year! #FamousFootwearPartner #FamousForBTS #makeitFAMOUS

For a long time I would make excuses for not taking care of myself as a parent. If it wasn’t a lack of village, it was money, or time, or kids, and all the other things I kept bringing up. I also thought that self care needed to look like what I saw on social media, which wasn’t realistic at all. I’m not catching a flight, and I don’t always have the finances or luxury of child care for my kids. But I do love quiet moments of reading. I buy eye patches, and those feet socks are great when I can’t make it to any nail salon. Some days I buy my favorite snacks and I eat them during nap time and it changes my mood. As a mom and mental health provider, finding ways to refresh my mind and body around my kids is key to actually being able to pour into them in a way that doesn’t leave me drained. Helping moms find realistic ways to take care of themselves is how I support them on their mental health journey. Sometimes self care looks like exploring hobbies as you watch your kids play. Baking because it’s your happy place and the treats aren’t just for the kids but you also. Maybe it’s invited a friend for lunch in your home, and movie is on for your kid. The hope is that you wouldn’t let social media convince you that self care looks one way, it’s can look slow, peaceful and taking small hours in the day to make it through a week of parenting. How are you taking care of yourself this week ? Share it in the comments ❤️ #selfcare #motherhood #realmotherhood #mentalhealth #momselfcare

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I’m pretty sure I still have so many of my happy meal toys, I can still remember the joy I had opening the box, eating my meal while playing with my toy. I love getting to see our boys do the same! This summer we’re spending it together and we’re having many meals in the car. The excitement is nostalgic! #ad They aren’t the only ones excited about McDonald’s meals! This summer, our dollars can go further, thanks to great deals from our friends at @McDonald’s. From the $5 Meal Deal to ‘Free Fries Fridays,’ they’re making sure everyone has McDonald’s money to spend this summer! You can choose between a McDouble or McChicken sandwich, small fries, 4 piece Chicken McNuggets, and a small soft drink – all for just $5 or $6 (depending on your sandwich choice) plus, Bring your favorite snack on all your summer adventures with ‘Free Fries Fridays’ every Friday nationwide – exclusively in the McDonald’s App. Check your McDonald’s® App to get even more bang for your buck. #summerdeal #5mealdeal #mcdonalds #childhood #memories