Jason Dykstra

Although occasionally the context can be healthy—like when we’re encouraged not to try to look perfect since no one else can maintain that—there can be an uncomfortably satisfying “this person is getting ugly-maybe even uglier than me” theme behind these slideshows. One might argue that this occurs because these are somewhat quantifiable—or at least comparable—parameters and because there is no accurate way to determine the value of the human life behind them, but I believe this mindset is very dangerous. A jobless John, disabled Danielle, ostracized Oscar, or makeupless movie star can never lose their worth because only one has the knowledge and authority to assign value, and it’s not them or any other human statement or standard. And every time you are tempted to consider yourself—or another—at discount value, remember the only thing you need to know about your net worth.

It’s becoming so content with the good ones that we don’t realize we’re sacrificing the best ones. We initially find God by finding Jesus, but we can only keep fulfilling our purpose—reaching out for and finding God—by valuing and emulating Jesus (John 10:27-28). I know a lot of rich, skilled, and popular people, but the most fulfilled and joyful ones are those whose possessions, pastimes, and popularity are primarily (not rarely or when it’s convenient) means to accomplish their purpose, not ends without purpose. The relationships and restoration a life like Jesus’ brings is the best, and that’s what you were created for.