While my husband Chuck , as the stay-at-home dad, does an amazing job handling all the day-to-day chores—laundry, groceries, shuttling the kids to school and all their activities, keeping up on the yard work, paying the bills, etc.—
But with Barbara’s help, we had both rooms done by the end of Day One, and we also had collected a VERY impressive pile of stuff to donate or throw away.
Day 3 was devoted to the kitchen and, because I needed to work most of the day (which thankfully I was able to do from home), Barbara handled this space mostly on her own.
And so, through all of this, my biggest piece of advice is to stop wasting time beating yourself up for the things you haven’t been able to get to while you’re busy focusing on the things that matter most.