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Born & raised in Buckinghamshire, I left home two years ago to pursue a career in blogging & documentary making for BBC3. I currently live in South West London. I make advice and lifestyle based videos every Sunday, and I share a more personal part of me by uploading weekly vlogs every Wednesday, 6pm GMT.
If you want to discuss sex, mental health, self love & other social issues then you're in the right place. My aim is to make taboo subjects, less taboo.
I was given the nickname 'The Internet's Big Sister' & I'm cool with it.
π BUSINESS EMAIL: james@freefocus.co.uk
We become so accustomed to negative self talk that the lines between self compassionate and self destructive become blurred. Those self critical and unkind thoughts sit in our subconscious mind, until we bring them into our awareness through therapy, self development or self healing. Your self compassionate and loving voice will be louder than your inner critic and it will feel beautiful. You surrender to the pain and you begin to feel it, because once you feel it, you don't need to feel it anymore.
Because of this, my subconscious has linked suffering with survival, so letting go of the pain, genuinely feels like I am letting go of who I am - even though I know that isn't entirely true. I don't feel like Grace, I feel like an outdated version. This is me surrendering and feeling like its time to know what my body looks and feels like without trauma, or pain, or suffering. I don't want to be slim, I don't want to be thin, I don't want to be a specific size or weight.
TW: I talk about sex and sexual trauma openly and quite complicity. If you feel that this may trigger you or make you feel uncomfortable then please do not read
WHEN YOU DONβT KNOW WHAT YOU WANT Good. And right